Explained《解释一切（2018）》第三季第八集完整中英文对照剧本.docx
2004年narratorIn2004,卡罗莱纳黑豹队对阵新英格兰爱国者队theCarolinaPanthersfacedoffagainsttheNewEnglandPatriots.这被认为是超级碗有史以来最精彩的比赛之一lt,sconsideredoneofthebestSuperBowlgameseverplayed,但它被载入史册却另有原因butitwentdowninhistoryforanotherreason.许多在CBS电视台观看比赛的观众看到了意想不到的一幕manManywhowatchedthegameonCBSsawsomethingtheyweren'texpecting在中场表演时舞台左边的歌♥手珍妮杰克逊走光了duringthehalftimeshowthatleftsingerJanetJacksonoverexposed.意外或是计划好的噱头Accidentorplannedshockstunt,还是表演服装出了问题无论何种情况orwardrobemalfunction.Whateveritwas.CBS电视台的母家维亚康姆Viacom,whichownsCBS,将会赔偿55万美元willhavetopay550,000dollars.隔天珍妮杰克逊道歉了narratorThenextday,JanetJacksonapologized.如果有冒犯到任何人Iamreallysorry我要表示歉意我真的不是故意的ifIoffendedanyone.Thatwastrulynotmyintention.但媒体依然不依不饶narratorButthemediacouldn'tgetenough.一名贾斯汀汀布莱克的“朋友”A,quote,"friend"ofJustinTimberIake匿名向小报举报anonymouslytoldtabloids她对他说谎了还利用了他sheIiedtohimandhadtakenadvantageofhim好保住自己的事业tokeephercareeralive.舆♥论♥就基这个主流说法劈头盖脸地将矛头珍妮杰克逊Whichwaspartofapile-onthatJanetJacksonwastoblame.（珍妮杰克逊就是这样的人）第二周贾斯汀道歉的时候Andthenextweek,whenJustinapologized,他用了一句笑话开场heopenedwithalaughline.听着我知道上周大家都不好过1.isten,Iknowit,sbeenaroughweekoneverybody,而且and.-laughter而且几乎忍♥不住笑了narratorAndcouldhardlyholdbackhissmirk.发生的事情不是故意为之Whatoccurredwasunintentional,我感觉十分后悔completelyregrettable,如果大家感觉被冒犯那我道歉andIapologizeifyouguyswereoffended.放在现在这都不算道歉narratorThatwouldn'tflyasanapologytoday.我们处在一个道歉的时代Weareinanageofapology.我们一看新闻Wecannotreadthenews就能看到新的道歉新闻withoutlearningaboutanewpublicapologythat'sbeenoffered.来自政客的narratorFrompoliticians,名人的celebrities,甚至还有政♥府♥的他们都为之前的过错道歉andevengovernmentsapologizingforpastcrimes.我认为大家的担忧之一Ithinkoneoftheconcernspeoplemayhave是道歉太多了isthatwiththerebeingsomanyapologiesoutthere可能就不太有效了thattheymaybelesseffective.这叫标准稀释SchumannSomethingcallednormativedilution.人们道歉越多narratorThemorepeopleapologize,我们就越期望道歉themoreweexpectapologies,我们就越不容易原谅他人butthelesswillingwearetoforgive.大家见识的东西越多Aspeoplegetmoresophisticated看到这些类型的道歉越多期望值就越高andseemoreofthesetypeofapologies,theydohopeformore.他们期望找到一种迹象表明那个人是真心道歉的Theyhopeforsomesignthatit'sactuallycomingfromtheperson'sheart.所以真诚的道歉是什么样子的呢？narratorSo,whatmakesagoodapology,它们有什么力量？andwhatpowerdotheyreallyhold?我真的非常抱歉Ican'ttellyouhowsorryIam.对于迟到原因womanHe'llprobablyhaveaperfectlygoodexplanation他必须给出一个完美的解释forwhyhewassolate.然后他还要道歉道歉！Thenhe'llapologize.-Apology!今天我们齐聚在此代表我国致歉Wecometogethertodaytoofferournation'sapology.我必须为自己的所有行为全权负责Imusttakecompleteresponsibilityforallmyactions.我不是来道歉的manIdidnotcomeheretoapologize.我不会改变我的想法我不会觉得内心有愧mnotgonnachangemymindandmnotgoingtobeapologeticaboutit.这个机会能够让你将过去抛诸脑后Thisisanopportunitytoputthepastbehindyou.剧名：道歉“原谅我吧上帝我有罪”Palmer"Forgiveme,God,forIhavesinned."据我们所知几千年以来ForthousandsofyearsintheEnglish-speakingworld,在英语国家中这是唯一的道歉asfaraswecantell,theseweretheonlyapologies.也就是向更高的权威道歉Apologiestoahigherpower.一位研究人员分♥析♥了所有古英语现存文章AresearcheranalyzedallthesurvivingtextsinOldEnglish他没有找到任何关于道歉货真价实的例子andcouldn'tfindanygenuineinstanceofapologizing.接着在16世纪90年代Butthen,inthe1590s,莎士比亚写下了这些话Shakespearewrotethesewords:“陛下不需要如此道歉”"Mylord,thereneedsnosuchapology."“我恳请陛下原谅我""IdobeseechyourGracetopardonme."这是现代意义上“道歉”的初次使用Itwasthefirstknownuseof',apology"inthemodernsense这兴起了一种新仪式andawholenewritual,向我们的朋友表现内心的忏悔performingourinnercontritiontoourfellowman.道歉很难It'sdifficulttoapologize,尤其是用真诚、有意义的方式andit'sdifficulttoapologizeinasincere,meaningfulway.但通常其中要包含几个要素PalmerButthere'susuallyahandfulofkeyelements.第一点对悔恨的表达First,anexpressionofremorse.想到道歉的时候我们马上能想到这个So,thisiswhatwethinkofwhenwethinkaboutwhatanapologyis.“对不起我道歉我感觉很愧疚”这类的话"msorry.Iapologize.Ifeelterrible."Thosetypesofstatements.第二个PalmerNumbertwo.承认因为自己的行为Acknowledgingtheharmandsufferingthevictimexperienced让被冒犯者遭受了伤害和痛苦asaresultofouractions.这会帮助他们感到被认可和理解Thathelpsthemfeelvalidatedandunderstood.人们也会想要真正地去承担责任Youalsoreallywanttotakeresponsibility.对被冒犯者的心理来说听到这样的话很重要It'sreallypsychologicallyimportantforthevictimtohearthat.解释自己的行为会有帮助PalmerOfferinganexplanationforyourbehaviorcanhelp.然后抱歉接下来的步骤是.Andthen,tomoveforward.提出修复关系或者承诺改变SchumannAnofferofrepairorcommitmenttochange.最后请求原谅PalmerAndfinally,arequestforforgiveness.在卡丽娜的研究中InKarina1Sresearch,大家通常会说peopleusuallysaytheyincludefourorfiveoftheseelements自己在日常道歉中能表达出四到五种要素intheireverydayapologies.但在现实生活中通常只有两种Butinreality,it'stypicallyjusttwo.人们会在想做正确的事情SchumannYouarebattlingthispushandpullbetweenwantingtodotherightthing,并想要修复这段关系让他人感觉更好wantingtorepairtherelationship,wantingtomaketheotherpersonfeelbetter,和希望保护自己作为好人的身份之间挣扎butalsoprotectingyourself-identityasagoodperson,不仅是针对别人而言的好人也是针对自己而言的notonlytotheotherperson,butalsotoyourself.这样会感觉很不舒服Thatcanbeveryuncomf
