《短歌行》教案2.docx

1.GenerationGapNowadays,thereisoftenalackOfunderstandingbetweenparentsandchildren.Childrenalwayscomplainthattheirparentsareoutofdate,whileparentscan,tapproveofwhattheirchildrensayanddo.Thus,abiggenerationgapisformed.Thegapremainswideformanyreasons.Childrenwanttobefreetochoosetheirownfriends,selecttheirownclassesinschool,plantheirownfuture,earnandspendtheirownmoney,andgenerallyruntheirownlifeinamoreindependentwaythanmanyparentsallow.Also,youngchildrenwishtobeunderstoodbytheirparents,butmostparentsdon'tquiteunderstandtheirchildren.Theyregarditastheirresponsibilitytoteachtheiroffspringtraditionalbeliefs.Theywantthemtobeobedientanddowellinschool.Therefore,misunderstandingoftenarisefromparents*tendencytointerfereinchildren/sdailyactivities.Inmyopinion,mostproblemsbetweenparentsandchildrencouldbesolvedbyjointeffortsofbothsidestoenhancemutualunderstanding.代沟如今,父母和子女之间经常缺乏沟通.子女经常抱怨父母过时了;而父母并不赞同子女的言行.于是一个很大的代沟就产生了.产生代沟的原因有很多.子女希望过比父母允许的更独立的生活出由的选择自己的朋友;在学校里自由的选择自己的社团;自由的描绘自己的将来洎由的支配自己的花费.当然年轻的子女们也希望能够得到父母的理解,但是并不是大多数的父母都能够理解他们的孩子,他们认为教育他们的后代树立传统的信仰是他们应有的责任,他们希望子女在家里能够孝顺,在学校能够好好学习.于是,不理解就往往从父母打算干涉子女的日常生活中产生了.我认为:父母和子女间的代沟问题可以通过双方相互理解来共同解决.Generationgapisaconceptwhichmeansalackofunderstandingandcommunicationbetweenparentsandchildren.Childrenalwayscomplainthattheirparentsdonotunderstandthemwhileparentsworryabouttheirchildren'sbehavioursandideas.Whydoesthereexistagenerationgapbetweenthechildrenandtheparents?Firstly,peoplewholiveindifferenttimehavedifferentviewpointstowardssocialcustomsandtradition.Forexample,parentswhowerebornin1950,sareverysurprisedatthefashionin1990's.Secondly,theparentsandchildrenseldomsitdowntogethertotalkorcommunicatewitheachotherequally.Iftheydoso,thegapwillbenarrowed,Ifnot,itwillwiden.Inmostcases,theparentsoftenblamethechildren'sbehaviourorstyleofclothesinsteadofcaringabouttheirthoughts.Thirdly,thechildrenwanttobemoreindependent,buttheparentsstillwanttotakechildrenundertheirwings.Toeasetheproblemandbridgethegenerationgap,parentsshouldtreattheirchildrenasfriendsandtrytounderstandthefeelingsandthoughtsoftheyoung.Meanwhile,childrenshouldrespecttheirparentsandthinkoftheproblemsfromtheirparents'viewpointFurthermore,theparentsshouldkeepstudyandcatchupwiththedevelopmentofthefashion.Inthisway,theywillunderstandtheirchildren'sbehaviour.Worktogether,theproblemwillbesolved.PerSOnaIbUSineSS私人买卖、私事2.Thegenerationgap,putsbrieflyisthepsychicdistancewhichbecausethedisparityinagelevelpersoninthethoughtideadisparitycreates.Waslikelysameontheditch,hasseparatedagenerationofgenerationofperson,affectedbetweentwogenerationofperson'sunderstandingandthecommunication.Notonlybutarrivedthenewcentury,thegenerationgaphasexistedinthepreviousgenerationwiththenextgenerationbetween,moreoverwasseparatedby10year,between8yearpeopleintheage,eveninbetweenuniversity'shighergradesandthelowergrade,allcouldhavethemirableobviousdifference.Thepeoplesaidfrequentlythat,thegenerationgapisthetimetrace,thetransformationfootsteps.Solookedlikethat,appearsthegenerationgapisnatural,doesnothavethegenerationgapisunnaturalonthecontrary,therefore,thegenerationgapphenomenoneasilywasalsounderstoodbythehuman.Butthegenerationgapisafteralladifficultywhichthepuzzleexchangesandcommunicates,moreovereasytoincreaseformstheprejudiceandthediscriminationpossibility,thegenerationgapbothsidespersonlightthendidnotunderstandmutually,theheavypieceholdsthehostility,thereforewealsomustmakeeachkindthroughallsortsofwaystosurmountthegenerationgapdiligently,tolevelthegenerationgap.Actually,thegenerationgapalsowasnotonephysicalexistence,butisonekindofpsychologicalexistence,thecontact,mayletthepsychologicalrelationwhichbetweenthegenerationandthegenerationoncebrokecontinue,thusachievedtheexchangesmoothandwastogetherharmony.代沟,简单地说就是不同年龄层次的人因思想观念上的差距造成的心理距离,就象沟一样,隔开了一代一代的人,影响两代人之间的理解和沟通,但是到了新世纪,代沟不仅存在于上一代与下一代之间,而且在年龄相隔10年、8年的人们之间,甚至在大学的高年级与低年级之间,都会有令人惊叹的明显差异.人们常常说,代沟是时间的痕迹,变革的脚步.如此看来,出现代沟是自然的,没有代沟反倒是不自然的,所以,代沟现象也容易被人理解.但代沟毕竟是困扰交流与沟通的难点,而且容易增加形成偏见和歧视的可能性,代沟两侧的人轻则互不理解,重则抱有敌意,所以我们也要通过种种途径作各种努力来跨越代沟、填平代沟.其实,代沟也并不是一种物理存在,而是一种心理存在,接触,可以让代与代之间曾经断裂的心理联系接续起来,从而达到交流的顺畅和相处的和谐.Nowadays,manyyoungpeoplearecomplainingthattheirparentscannotunderstandthemverywell.Theysaythattheirparentstakecareofeveryaspectoftheirlives,leavingthemunabletohavetheirprivatespace.Yet,parentsareworriedthattheirchildrendon,tshowanyrespecttothemandnevergivethemanytrust.现在，许多年轻人抱怨他们的父母不太了解他们，他们认为父母对他们生活的各个方面干涉太多，使得他们没有自己的空间。然而，父母却担心孩子对他们不够尊重和信任。Consequently,ahouseholdphraseisspreading.Itisthe"GenerationGap1'.Byusingthisphrase,boththeyoungandtheoldhavefoundagoodexplanationfortheirmisunderstandingofeachother,yettheydon'tbothertotakeanymeasurestocoverthedistancebetweenthem.这种现象的结果使得“代沟”一词广为流传。通过使用该词，年轻人和上了岁数的人都能对存在于他们中间的误解找到很好的借口。然而，他们却不去想办法消除彼此的距离。Inmyopinion,Ithinkweshouldfirstadmitthatthereareindeedsomedifferencesbetweenparentsandchildren.Then,weshouldtrytotakesometimetocommunicatewitheachotherfrequently.Notonlytheparents,butalsothekidsshouldbeequalwhenexchangingtheirviews.Onlybytheirjointefforts